in response to tiredandlost... I hear you!
I have given and given, but when I need help I can't seem to find anyone who will help either.
I have found a great deal of fair weathered friends though.
& for family, well I thought I had some.
But I guess I don't have any or at least any who care at all.
My advice, I pray it is worth something.
If you live in a larger city area maybe you can find a church or organization who will help you.
Maybe you could find someone looking for a room mate.
If you own your house.
That is a better situation to be in.
You could share your house.
Go to the church or organization's and try to find someone who is compatible with you.
Split bills with them. Make it as inexpensive as possible for everyone.
Best of luck to you.